Tips to help you fall in love with a man at a distance
About the future of a serious relationship, you can start talking when after a real acquaintance you really liked the person, and you agreed on the next meeting. But if a guy does not think about a date, then most likely he is not serious, so throw him out of your head and do not waste time in vain. It’s time to find someone else.
Well, if the guy is active and gorgeous, and he tries to find a way to make acquaintance with the girl. This is especially easy to do if they have the same social circle. However, circumstances can add up in another way.
Among women, it is widely believed that the first step is to take care of the stronger sex. Is this true? Imagine how a man in love at a distance feels? He can not know for sure what you like, too, worried about the possible failure.
Don’t be afraid of mistakes
There is nothing wrong with being the first to show your sympathy. Often the beginning of relationships, what is lacking is the sign of the woman. As to show themselves? Just write a message through a social network, for example, or get acquainted in a common company.
It is also important to distinguish the desired from the real and understand if you just “play»:
- It should be understood that if you really like the young man, he, even timidly, but willingly support your acquaintance and try to develop it. If this does not happen – also not scary. You will just have a good friend, and do not think that the person will be about you an unpleasant impression.
- If you really want to like the guy you met through the world wide web, be sure to watch how you look. All that is at the disposal of a lover at a distance of a man – the appearance of a woman. He has no way to feel her charm in real life. Therefore, you have almost the only lever of influence on the young man – your photos. Try to make a good impression, do not spare money and take pictures of good quality, put them on your pages in social networks, as well as send your chosen one in private messages. Give him the opportunity to appreciate your beauty and charm.
Try not to lose your sense of proportion. Vulgar or too candid photos will not help to win a fan, but only demonstrate the frivolity of your intentions. Do not show pictures that do not reflect your best side, for example from a restaurant where you are not very sober and unnaturally active and cheerful. In this case, the guy will not take you seriously.
Your first steps should be the following
Ask for advice from a gentleman who you like and supports communication. For a representative of the stronger sex it is very important to see and realize that it is needed, especially when it comes to an attractive girl. Find out what he is well versed in, and do not miss the opportunity to consult, even if you notice that you better understand the essence of the issue. Do not show your great awareness, the guy should not have the feeling that he is stupider than you (even if in part it is so). The competition, especially from the pleasant girl, the man will be unpleasant, and he will cease to show interest to you.
Do not skimp on praise, however, feel the measure. A man in love at a distance is very necessary compliments, so do not miss the opportunity to tactfully and from the heart to praise him. For example, he aptly quipped in the message, and you answer email that is a subtle sense of humor, as he must still search.
Stay open nonmatter what
With interest discuss with guy themes, which he raises under rubbing shoulders. If you feel that you do not really understand the issue, read the necessary articles on the Internet, so as not to lose face. But do not try to deeply study the subject of discussion, then to Shine in front of the guy his erudition, your goal – just a pleasant conversation. Too smart young ladies many guys are afraid and shy away.
Do not reveal too much to the guy, leave room for intrigue in your communication. The girl about whom the fan knows everything, ceases to cause interest. So don’t let him in on every little detail of your life. This is completely useless until your relationship has moved into a more serious stage (in reality). And always keep the optimism and joie de vivre in communication, this is a very attractive quality of that love in the distance a man will appreciate.
How to understand from a distance that a man is in love
The fact that the girl really liked the guy, indicate the following signs:
- The fan will try to find the girl in social networks and mark her photos with likes, write something in the comments, or will go to the page several times a day. And those who are bolder, write a few words directly “in PM”, for example, wish good morning, or a good day.
- If the young man immediately answers your message, also be sure that you are a very nice.
If you do not know how to understand at a distance that a man in love, pay attention to his increased interest in you, which manifests itself in communicating with friends. He is constantly trying to find out information about you, interested in everything. Maybe even ask someone of your friends has given you a hint about his feelings.
Tries to appear in the General company. The guy will find opportunities to be with the girl in the same social circle. This is a great chance to make acquaintance and get closer.
The young man’s appearance changes. For men their own appearance has never stood in the first place. And if he began to comb his hair and dress differently, then he expects you to like him.
How do you know from a distance that a man is in love? Pay attention to how he communicates with you, for example, on Skype. Many gestures say that he cares about you. The young man often straightens his hair, blushes, can say something out of place or nervously rubbing his palms.
There are a number of NLP signs by which you can determine that a man is not indifferent to you, not only at a distance, but in a real acquaintance.
You are definitely cute guy if he repeatedly straightens with you his clothes, even though it is in perfect order.
- A person who really likes a girl subconsciously tends to touch her, to touch her hand, or her hair.
- A man in love involuntarily begins to copy the facial expressions of the object of his sympathy, to repeat the movements and gestures of the woman he likes.
- A man often uses gesture, demonstrating confidence in itself (established on belt hands).
How do you know from a distance that a man is in love? He usually feels embarrassed by your appearance and his own emotions, and demonstrates this with a characteristic gesture (scratching his head).
The young man tries to straighten his shoulders, pull his stomach. All in order to look more solid and impressive in the eyes of his lady.
The guy clearly admires the appearance of the girl, if looking at her opens her mouth.
Keep sincerity, it will help
If the girl is nice to the guy, his poses will always be as open as possible in relation to her: all parts of the body, chest, shoulders, toes involuntarily turned in the direction of the object of sympathy.
The open palms of the hands during communication, even if they are not used in gestures, but simply located on the knees – also a sign of great sympathy.
The romantically tuned young man feels excitement and uncertainty, therefore, puts forward leg, hoping to get a better foothold.
A man in love tends to be closer to the object of his feelings. Therefore, during the conversation trying to get closer to the chosen one.
The guy, seized with feelings, often does not know how to behave, and from excitement just twists the buttons on his own clothes.
How else do you know from a distance that a man is in love? He wants to look attractive, so when talking over and over again straightens hair. Another characteristic gesture for a caring man – he rubs his cheeks or chin.
Slightly raised eyebrows at the interlocutor – a sign that the woman is very much like the guy.